Tuesday, April 19, 2011

Resurrection Garden: Planted on Lazarus Saturday

"Every garden is an imitation of the Garden that is Christ's, that he himself tends in the the hearts of those who welcome him in."  Vigen Guroian

Inspired by Ann, and here are photos from a past garden, showing the steps for building it (we use a garbage bag to line our basket)

Monday, April 18, 2011

Thankful Days of Grace

124. the calm before a storm
125. the color of spring, that green you only see in early spring just after a rainstorm

126. dogwoods blooming

127. first rose

128. flower buds lined up in a window

129. remembering loved ones

130. hydrangea, her favorite flower

131.  kneading the dough as a gift to God, a gift He will return to us in the form of His Body broken for us, love filling our mouths

132. the end of LENT!   
133. a taste of Pascha, cloths briefly changing to gold before entering the Bright Darkness of Holy Week
  
 134.  palm branches waving, shouts of Hosannah ringing out!

Friday, April 15, 2011

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Holy Week Learning Boxes for Sale

One way to simplify using the Holy Week boxes is to only have one box.  You can gather the items you are able and use them, adding to them slowly.  If you want a jump start, I have 3 boxes available containing the above pictured items (cover icon on box may vary, but will be a resurrection icon).  The cost for each box is $20 plus shipping.  If you are interested, leave me a comment with an email address and I will contact you.

Monday, April 11, 2011

Thanksgiving from the St. Emmelia Conference

106. dew drops, frozen in time, suspended on soft fuzzy leaves, reminder of younger days when a yard full of dew was a magical thing
107. seeing the face of God in those dew drops, His hand present in each one

108. cross reaching up to heaven, victory in death

109. ladder, burning bush, she who contained the Uncontainable, looked into the eyes of her Son and saw God
110. standing before the grave site of a saint
111. venerating the relics of many others, sweet fragrance of holiness 
112.  beautiful god-daughter, twinkling eyes full of mischief
113. lonely prayer rope, invitation to pray as we enter
114. light pouring through glass, filling a holy place with it's beauty

115. A God who welcomes the children into His lap

116. a chapel just steps away, services twice a day, life truly turning on the rhythm of prayer

117.  more children than adults in church, and no one turning to look when a baby cries
118.  room full of adults having fun making felt saints

119. children of all ages together, having fun

120. new friends

121. wisdom shared, from men who consider it important to spend a weekend of their time inspiring us to be good parents, teachers, and humans.  Thank you Andrew Kern, Fr. Noah Bushelli and Fr. Andrew Damick
122. worship with a room full of people who are bonded by two connections, our faith and our desire to educate our children ourselves
123. the time and effort of all of those who worked so very hard to make this conference happen, thank you Barli!!

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Revisiting the Pascha Learning Boxes

I originally posted these last year, but have made a few additions to the boxes, as well as taken some better photos!  So, here is another look at my learning boxes for Holy Week.  I will mention again, that this is an involved project.  When I first had the idea several years ago, it was Lazarus Saturday and I jumped into action planning how I would create them.  My wise husband cautioned against it, saying that rather than a blessing, it would be a consuming project for Holy Week, distracting me from what I should be doing.  So, I followed his advice, and waited until after Pascha to begin making them.  I say this again to caution you - if this is an idea you want to replicate, do it slowly.  Do not attempt to pull it together quickly, you will find yourself frustrated and it will not be a joyful project.  The wonderful thing about the church rythms is that we can look to next year.
Finally, a word about the use of the boxes.  In my home, we have used them in several ways.  The first is actually taking them to church on each day of Holy Week.  If you have a young child, the items in the box offer a focus.  I usually tell my littlest ones to listen through the service, especially at the readings, and see if they can hear mention of each item in the box.  The joy on the face of my 4 year old when she heard the parable of the grape vine as she sat holding those plastic grapes was priceless. Some pieces are more interactive.  One year I watched as several children in our church sat and carefully lined the palm branches and fabric in the shape of the cross.  The icon was placed at the top, and the donkey was walked along the path, over and over again.  For a young child, that is prayer.  That is meditating on the scripture.  That is learning.  The boxes may also be used at home.  You may wish to read the scripture ahead and present the items.  If you are concerned with small pieces being all over the place, take a small placemat to church and roll it out on the floor.  Explain that this is the space to work with the box, and the items are to stay on the mat until they are returned to the box.  Then watch, and be prepared to have visitors in your aisle as curious children around you are drawn to see what is going on!

Box 1
This box is for Palm Sunday, but could be used on Lazarus Saturday as well. It contains a strip of linen fabric to represent the raising of Lazarus, a donkey (from the crocodile hunter's stash), palm branches (a piece of artificial greenery I found at H*bby L*bby, just pull off the individual fronds off), palm crosses from past Palm Sundays, and icons of Mary and Martha, the Raising of Lazarus, and the Entrance into Jerusalem.  The prayer card is a small wooden plaque from the craft store painted purple.  I printed the script off my computer and attached it with mod p*dge.  A second coat of mod p*dge and some pearl 3-d paint finished it off.  
Box 2
This box is for Sunday evening Bridegroom Matins and Monday morning services. The focus of these services is humility, with Joseph as the Old Testament type of Christ, suffering in humility before saving his people. The grapes (from a craft store) and figs are references to the parables told during these services.  I purchased the figs online, but they are no longer available from that vendor.  Let me know if anyone finds another source for them, but you could model them from sc*lpey clay.
Box 3
This box pertains to Bridegroom Matins on Monday evening and Tuesday mornings gospel readings. The theme of readiness for the final judgement runs through these readings and the parables of the 10 talents and the 10 virgins are told. The sheep and goats (from the crocodile hunter's stash) are a reference to the scripture in which the people will be divided at judgement. The coin recalls the story of the Pharisees' attempt to trick Christ - render unto Caesar that which is Caesar's. The lamps and oil are from this site, but are rather expensive.  They are made from sc*lpey clay and would be easy to replicate with a bit of time.  Icons include the Prophet Moses and the icon of the Last Judgement.
Box 4
This box covers Tuesday evening through Wednesday evening, with an emphasis on healing. The scriptures read during these days recalls the parable of the good Samaritan, and references to Christ healing the sick. The pitcher, basin (doll house items) and vial of oil remind us of the harlot washing Christ's feet, and also His rebuke to the disciples that He came to save those who are sinful. The bag contains 30 pieces of silver, as Wednesday is also the day Judas is paid for his betrayal of Christ. Finally, the oil also calls to mind the Service of Holy Unction which is commonly held on Wednesday of Holy Week.  Please note, the coins are not a good item to take to church!  They make far too much noise, so I only use them at home, and for church place 3 coins in the bag to represent the 30 pieces.

Box 5
This box is for the Mystical Supper, and contains a chalice, bread, an icon of the last supper and figures of Christ and disciples

Box 6
This box covers the services of Thursday and Friday, from the Passion Gospel service to Royal Hours on Friday. It contains a small plastic sword which Peter drew to defend Christ in the garden, a rooster as a reminder of Peter's betrayal hours later, a crown of thorns (miniature wreath from H*bby L*bby), a vial of vinegar as offered to Christ on the cross, a strip of leather to remind of the beating he received, a die as they cast lots for his clothing, and a small wooden skewer to represent the spear that pierced His side

Box 7
The final box is for Saturday, and contains a strip of linen to represent Christ's burial, vials of frankincense and myrrh which the women took to the tomb to prepare his body, a stone, icons of the resurrection and the risen Christ figure.  The prayer card was made in the same way as described above.  Another nice item to include in this box would be flower petals gathered from the Lamentations service the evening before.

A great addition to the boxes are the Great Lent and Holy Week Coloring books from Potamitis Publishing, and for older children, the Holy Week and Pascha book is wonderful.


NOTE:
Some of the items in the boxes are not appropriate for younger children, and I am sure there are many other items that could be included, and ways to personalize this project.  Use your own judgement to determine what is safe and best for your children.

Monday, April 4, 2011

Monday, Monday

Time. What is it?  Augustine once said that  "If no one asks me, I know what it is.  If I wish to explain it to him who asks, I do not know."

"the clock has the effect of disassociating time from human events and thus nourishes the belief in an independent world of mathematically measurable sequences.  Moment to moment, it turns out, is not God's conception, or nature's.  It is man conversing with himself about and through a piece of machinery he created. .... [with the invention of the clock], eternity ceased to serve as a measure and focus of human events. ..... [In a world of clocks and time keepers], we have learned an irreverence toward the sun and the seasons, for in a world made up of seconds and minutes, the authority of nature is superseded. " 
[Neil Postman,  Amusing Ourselves to Death]

Our lives seem to spin out of control, as we are searching for the balance.  We regret the past, we look to the future always, we check our watch (or rather our iPh*ne) to keep time with the world, to schedule the next moment.  And we forget now.  We forget what Einstein understood, that a moment is not quite as neat and simple as a ticking clock.  Moments can last an eternity, or they can pass us by unnoticed.  And yet we continue on, "ordering our lives in a way that produces chaos" [Fr. Noah Bushelli].  How can we stretch those moments?  How can we dilate time?  Not by moving at the speed of light, but rather by slowing down.  Taking the moments, making them meaningful, living them purposefully.  Marking time not by hours and minutes, but by seasons.  Marking the milestones.  Last week the little princess marked a big one, a decade of her sweet smile and fiery temper and deep spirit.  A decade that raced past, often when I wasn't looking.  So now, I stop, make time stand still for just the two of us.  Together we count memories, not minutes.....
96. pillow fights
97. white sheets
98. quiet time alone with my little princess
99. riding the elevator to the top floor, just because

100. fountains

101. sharing a treasured story

 102. staying up 'til midnight, swimming, because this day and night,  hours don't count, only memories
 103. painted toes
104. her little hand reaching out to hold mine as we walk 
105. ten years of loving my first little girl